tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31181201968147008572024-03-13T09:09:37.975-07:00Stella and MimiMehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06555714448367360627noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3118120196814700857.post-86964019098664947202010-04-05T14:50:00.000-07:002010-04-05T15:06:35.093-07:00Dealing with Clients (and not taking it personally...)<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://mkcphotography.com/artwork/1275435_Time_to_Go.html"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 256px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUrYD5Gyv5xS13X-HIRBYBNhVzmKVLVfaQ8FKjXJXhZOqe84KH_181x_E0hI80PYodGi5n-E65-5qnYAbhBjKPu1Bo6SS4eqhWGzwVIxk6KCgzQseHohRoI1IDFh7WF84fgZrj3X2u5fg/s320/TimeToGoWM.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5456774390363547938" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="font-size:78%;">"Time to Go" by Michelle Ciarlo-Hayes</span><br /><br />Life as a business owner/wife/mother/daughter/sister is complex. When a client in any of the aforementioned categories becomes difficult, it's hard to not let it overwhelm your day (not that any of us would ever dare complain about our mothers...). In keeping with the "when it rains, it pours" adage, every business owner will, at one point or another, experience those days where she feels she can do nothing right. Every client has a problem, question, or concern and each of those concerns can feel like a personal attack.<br /><br />Take a deep breath.<br /><br />They are not out to sabotage you, make your life miserable, or toy with your emotions. They have no idea that twelve other people have chosen this very day to change their minds, complain, or have an emergency that you need to fix. They are simply looking for a receptive ear and a creative mind to help them cross their hurdle. Often you'll learn something of value from taking a moment and listening, rather than preparing your own response while they are still speaking.<br /><br />Still feel like you're slowly going insane? Before you decide to pack your bags and run away from the business world forever, take a minute and vent to a fellow Stella and Mimi member: no doubt she's having the same kind of day you are. Tell her all the things you wish you could say to your troublesome client, and have a good laugh. Stealing a piece of chocolate from your kids' Easter basket always helps too...Michelle (mkc photography)http://www.blogger.com/profile/08215240839733068093noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3118120196814700857.post-66839095711149652222010-03-12T10:55:00.000-08:002010-03-12T11:24:09.488-08:00Run Your Business Like a Girl<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://mkcphotography.com/artwork/1261423_Run_Like_a_Girl.html"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 263px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiSPePse7XNJL63E2tKU9szi4WeMNVC7QduuwEaQKkDtSPl0g-lFRsNxhYNBXHxaVJWZwEIhAsj67v1xQwFVIOfdxDXwtW9CQ9goLagDqM0BVRBPCfwH24prudkH4IR6JsrglUnpRuSoH8/s320/RunLikeAGirlPolaroidWM.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5447823307288293858" border="0" /></a><br /><br />After I shot this photograph and shared the <a href="http://mkcphotographybymichelleciarlo-hayes.blogspot.com/2010/03/story-behind-picture-run-like-girl.html">story behind the picture</a> on my artist blog, I decided this image probably resonates well with all of us in Stella and Mimi. I don't doubt that every one of us has been subject to similar events and stories as the one I shared. I don't doubt that, even as adults, we will continue to face situations where we are stereotyped based on our gender, race, and, for many of us, our role as mothers. For some reason - mothers or not - women who run their own small businesses tend not to be taken as seriously. If you don't agree, think about how many times a day your phone rings for non-business purposes. Think about how many of your friends expect you to be available at all hours of the day for play-dates, shopping trips, etc. Think about how irritated your husband would be if his mother and his friends called him at work as often as yours call you.<br /><br />Certainly we don't want to shut our friends and family out of our lives, so what is the answer? Set boundaries and keep them. Only answer the house phone during certain hours, only make yourself available for non-work-related gatherings during certain times of the week. The way you value your time, your image, and your business is the only way others will learn to value you. We do run our businesses a little differently because we are women, and we are part of a larger network of people who depend on us: we are the rememberers-of-birthdays, the on-call-counselors for our best friends, the takers-of-the-dogs-to-the-vet. And that's okay. But don't let that dependent network overwhelm you and inadvertently sabotage your business. Perhaps the words above should read "You run your business like a girl." And you bet my response would still be, "thanks!"Michelle (mkc photography)http://www.blogger.com/profile/08215240839733068093noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3118120196814700857.post-33227419339739411252010-02-05T12:20:00.001-08:002010-02-09T20:31:22.376-08:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://mkcphotography.com/artwork/649926_My_Favorite_Things.html"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 143px; height: 144px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8DfuqHiSo8NUx3_cpSmeaehdfShLgsTQpO1OHPBxzkYucMDr3Hy7E6nwl_H4P-cOk0u_DLXj6fN_Yrr9g4iwFIRAGCf7aRJY7R7jGG2DB96sPxY7PDW4O1tC3p3A4gTwc9xcoEawnAkUd/s320/My+Favorite+ThingsTinyWM.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5436467537136879730" border="0" /></a><br /><br />The SAMED (Stella and Mimi Educational Dictionary)<br /><br />Whoring (v.) - Prostituting one's personal talents to others<br />"She spent all day whoring her artwork to local galleries."<br /><br />not to be confused with<br /><br />Pimping (v.) - Presenting others with a fabulous completed package they cannot refuse<br />"I pimped our book out to two major companies today: expect offers shortly."Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06555714448367360627noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3118120196814700857.post-37428711584059630322009-12-02T12:27:00.000-08:002009-12-02T12:35:37.421-08:00<meta equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"><meta name="ProgId" content="Word.Document"><meta name="Generator" content="Microsoft Word 12"><meta name="Originator" content="Microsoft Word 12"><link rel="File-List" href="file:///C:%5CUsers%5CDeane%5CAppData%5CLocal%5CTemp%5Cmsohtmlclip1%5C01%5Cclip_filelist.xml"><link rel="themeData" href="file:///C:%5CUsers%5CDeane%5CAppData%5CLocal%5CTemp%5Cmsohtmlclip1%5C01%5Cclip_themedata.thmx"><link rel="colorSchemeMapping" href="file:///C:%5CUsers%5CDeane%5CAppData%5CLocal%5CTemp%5Cmsohtmlclip1%5C01%5Cclip_colorschememapping.xml"><!--[if 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<br />A Night at the Movies for two</p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing">tickets to your favorite show ~ $25</p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing">Refreshments ~ $15</p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing">Gas ~ $10</p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing">TOTAL ~ $50 for 90 minutes</p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing">That breaks down to <b>$5.56 per minute</b></p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing"><u1:p></u1:p>Dinner out on the town for two</p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing">Drinks ~ $15</p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing">Appetizers ~ $10</p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing">Dinner ~ $25</p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing">Gas ~ $10</p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing">TOTAL ~ $60 for 90 minutes</p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing">That breaks down to <b>$6.67 per minute</b></p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing"><u1:p></u1:p>Stitching with a Friend</p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing">Fabric (Linen) ~ $20</p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing">Fibers ~ $12</p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing">Chart ~ $10</p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing">Gas ~ $10</p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing">TOTAL ~ $52 for 300 minutes</p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing">That breaks down to <b>$1.73 per minute</b></p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing"><b><i><u>Stitchers receive an additional 210 minutes of entertainment for less money! </u></i></b><o:p></o:p></p> <u1:p></u1:p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing"><u1:p></u1:p>Here’s a great example of how Loose Thread Stitchers shows value to our customers. How are you positioning your company to compete in this economy? Why not showcase the VALUE your customers receive when they choose to purchase your products over others? The above example would be a wonderful example to send to your customers in your monthly newsletter. Better yet ~ why not engage your customers? Creating an environment where customers can connect with your company in a new and exciting way to help build customer loyalty and referrals!<o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing"><u1:p></u1:p><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing">Interested? Great! Ok here’s what to do! Copy and paste the examples above in your newsletter. Ask your customers to send you more examples. For each example sent they will be entered to win a prize. Set a deadline for entries. One entry will be chosen the winner on a set date and will be announced in the following month’s newsletter.</p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing">
<br />Be sure to add a blurb about why this prize is so valuable. This doesn’t mean the prize has to be expensive. You need to convey to your customers why it is special, why do you love it so much and why do your customers HAVE TO HAVE IT!</p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing"><u1:p></u1:p>When you announce the winner in the next newsletter why don’t you surprise all who entered with a 10% discount on said product (whatever the winner receives)? This will encourage future participation; bring traffic into your store and increase customer referrals ~ shoppers LOVE exclusive discounts!</p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNoSpacing"><u1:p></u1:p>Marketing is an essential part of any business and by positioning your company as an alternate VALUE in today’s economy in your field makes your company even more essential. These small steps will enable your company to continue to build a successful link with your customers!</p> Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06555714448367360627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3118120196814700857.post-20476318907251388142009-11-25T06:41:00.000-08:002010-02-09T20:35:56.357-08:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://mkcphotography.com/artwork/1141808_A_Girl_s_Best_Friend.html"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhKkGcdr01xvzrlq2b0vt9tiiGMYDT6g5fFpoCrEqgy4A_kEeqGd2zjed8Y4et2HnBaQnpM2EtC7C-9rlwEn7tw04R0_iymo2RWyimRwWt5_ulkQohdg1q_i_P3YfYqtsdBsVM2kwaC-ir/s200/GirlstiltshiftWM.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5436468794355307234" border="0" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Don't ever let anyone stand in the way of following your dream...just trip 'em and keep on going</span><br /></div><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">I know I'm a bit feisty this morning. I can't help it. I woke up angry. Terrible isn't it? I woke up that way b/c I had a dream about a friend who wanted to start her own business and all her friends kept telling her it would never work. They said she was crazy and what was she even thinking trying to do starting her own business.</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" >Isn't being home with her children enough?</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" >Why does she want to add extra stress and pressure? What more could she possibly want?</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" >Poof, I woke up. Crazy dream right? Not really, see it was based on actual events.<br /><br />I do have a friend who is going thru this right now. My dream just made it much more infuriating and I had to vent. See my girl is a fabulous woman, she is smart talented and most importantly she is starting to believe she can make this happen. The sad part is she's listening to the "chatter" around her. I'm worried she always will.<br /><br />It is hard going out on your own.</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" >It is hard not to listen to the "chatter".</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" >It is hard taking the leap ~ I know this might sound a bit harsh but ~ Tough!</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" >Anything worth doing makes you a bit uncomfortable; it’s called taking a chance.</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" >But think of the alternative.</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" >NOT doing it!</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" >Are you comfortable letting others run your life?</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" >How do you feel about putting limitations on you and what you can become?</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" >Would you feel good about looking back on your life 10 years from now and knowing what “could have been”? I don't think so.</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" ><br /><br />I know it sounds corny but you can be anything you want.</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" > I know a bit afterschool special-ish but it's the truth. </span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" >Stop holding yourself back and just put yourself out there and try it.</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" >Stop listening to the “chatter” and go after your dream.</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" >Hey if you fail ~ who cares at least you went for it. I never want to look back on my life and wonder what if. No more excuses, no more thinking it over, just take the leap and get into it ~ you'll never know until you try.</span><p style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"></p> <p style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;">Most importantly, surround yourself with women who BELIEVE in you.</span><span style="font-size:100%;"> </span><span style="font-size:100%;">By believe I don’t mean women, who give lip service. People who politely nod their heads and blow smoke up your skirt.</span><span style="font-size:100%;"> </span><span style="font-size:100%;">I mean real women who want you to succeed.</span><span style="font-size:100%;"> </span><span style="font-size:100%;">Women, who want to support you, encourage you and be there while you are building and working to make your dream a reality.</span><span style="font-size:100%;"> </span><span style="font-size:100%;">Find women who know how hard you are working and continue to find ways to help support you on your journey.</span><span style="font-size:100%;"> </span><span style="font-size:100%;">These are the women of Stella and Mimi.</span><span style="font-size:100%;"> </span><span style="font-size:100%;">These are the women you need to meet.</span><span style="font-size:100%;"> </span><span style="font-size:100%;">These are the women who will help change your life ~ b/c they helped change mine!</span></p><p style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);" class="MsoNormal"> ~ Colleen<br /></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:100%;"><br /></span><span style=""> </span></p>Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06555714448367360627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3118120196814700857.post-76871855476243518002009-11-19T11:27:00.000-08:002009-11-23T18:58:56.793-08:00Welcome to Stella and Mimi!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi76o3yiVP76qXO-djFR6bSJMrNv9HTtAZ2hae5mapDQ5LtBOebDJTfTskoCj2EgL8bojnFRrzkZjkBVtrsJAmN6tWp4_h3PHIh_hIJhH_AsbIon9S1QEVj6EIuq62FN9sqXFFDUsvcwIen/s1600/SAMTwitPic.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi76o3yiVP76qXO-djFR6bSJMrNv9HTtAZ2hae5mapDQ5LtBOebDJTfTskoCj2EgL8bojnFRrzkZjkBVtrsJAmN6tWp4_h3PHIh_hIJhH_AsbIon9S1QEVj6EIuq62FN9sqXFFDUsvcwIen/s200/SAMTwitPic.jpg" /></a><br /></div>Dream. Believe. Achieve.<br /><br />Those three words completely embody our mission here at Stella and Mimi. We are a network of women entrepreneurs who meet monthly to discuss our business goals and challenges, and network/refer business to each other.<br /><br />And we do it all in sweatpants.<br /><br />Please read all the info, such as our mission statement and our FAQs, and feel free to <a href="mailto:stellaandmimi@gmail.com">contact </a>us with any questions!Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06555714448367360627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3118120196814700857.post-6112156666072879572009-11-19T11:20:00.000-08:002009-11-19T16:12:16.382-08:00Chapter Requirements1) No two companies can produce the same products<br />2) Referrals go to chapter members first<br />3) Chapters can be no larger than 15 members<br />4) Chapters must cover topics provided at chapter meetings<br />5) Chapters must hold monthly meetings<br />6) Chapters must adhere to the set schedule provided<br />7) Chapters must have a website that is updated regularly by members<br />8) Chapter websites must link to other chapters and to the corporate Stella and Mimi site<br />9) Chapters are open to all women who meet the <a href="http://stellaandmimi.blogspot.com/2009/11/member-requirements.html">member requirements</a>Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06555714448367360627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3118120196814700857.post-72849479857164164362009-11-19T11:03:00.000-08:002009-11-19T11:03:24.755-08:00Member RequirementsTo join Stella and Mimi, you must:<br />
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1) Be a woman (seems obvious, but we had to say it!)<br />
2) Create and own your own company (i.e. no <a href="http://www.dsa.org/">DSA's</a> or <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Multi-level_marketing">multilevel marketing</a>)<br />
3) Company can be in any of the following phases: idea, start-up, established, etc.<br />
4) Add the Stella and Mimi button to your blog, website, etc.<br />
5) Be willing to share experience and advice, and to support other members<br />
6) Complete monthly goal-setting exercisesMehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06555714448367360627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3118120196814700857.post-45658192636272314092009-11-17T12:06:00.001-08:002009-11-19T11:09:02.266-08:00How to JoinTo join, please send a message to Colleen and Michelle at:<br />
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<a href="mailto:stellaandmimi@gmail.com">stellaandmimi@gmail.com</a><br />
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We invite everyone to come for a meeting and experience the benefits of Stella and Mimi first-hand!Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06555714448367360627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3118120196814700857.post-13393955308478331652009-11-17T12:05:00.004-08:002010-01-04T03:23:34.284-08:00FAQs1) <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">When are the 2010 meeting dates?</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Stella and Mimi meetings will be held every second Tuesday of the month from 7:30-9:30 p.m.</span><br />January 12<br />February 9<br />March 9<br />April 13<br />May 11<br />June 8<br />July 13<br />August 10<br />September 14<br />October 12<br />November 9<br />December 14<br />2) <i><b>Who can join?</b></i><br />Stella and Mimi is for women entrepreneurs who want to develop and run their own businesses. Multi-level marketing and direct-sale companies (such as Avon, Silpada, etc.), while wonderful, are not permitted.<br />3) <span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">How can I join?</span><br />Please send an email to<br />StellaAndMimi@gmail.com<br />with your name, contact information, and a brief company bio.<br />2)<b><i> What if I haven't started my business yet?</i></b><br />Then you definitely need to join us! Even if it's just a fledgling idea, bring it to a meeting. You'll be amazed at the ideas and direction you will leave with after just one meeting.<br />3) <b><i>What if I've been in business for years?</i></b><br />Unless you're driving a Bentley and have discovered all the secrets of marketing and developing your business, there is always room for growth. Come and rethink, relaunch, or revitalize the company you've worked so hard to create. If you <i>have</i> discovered all the secrets, start your own chapter and share your expertise with others!<br />4) <b><i>How many business owners permitted per chapter?</i></b><br />No more than fifteen businesses are allowed. If your local group has reached its max, you are welcome to form a new chapter.<br />5) <b><i>How can I start my own chapter? Why would I want to?</i></b><br /><a href="mailto:stellaandmimi@gmail.com">Contact Colleen and Michelle</a> if you would like to start your own chapter - we'd love to personally walk you through the process!Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06555714448367360627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3118120196814700857.post-72304690284692849442009-11-17T12:05:00.002-08:002009-11-17T12:05:20.628-08:00NewsMehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06555714448367360627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3118120196814700857.post-14392289295743436762009-11-17T12:04:00.003-08:002010-04-06T14:30:38.283-07:00Mission StatementStella and Mimi's mission is to:<br />Encourage women to believe in themselves and each other<br />Help women reach their career goals of owning and growing their business<br />Create a supportive place to connect, be inspired, share ideas, and receive honest feedback<br /><br /><a href="http://stellaandmimi.blogspot.com/2010/03/run-your-business-like-girl.html">"Run your business like a girl"</a><br />~ Stella and MimiMehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06555714448367360627noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3118120196814700857.post-45181213799429468222009-11-17T12:04:00.001-08:002010-04-06T14:29:00.052-07:00AboutColleen Leader and Michelle Ciarlo-Hayes began Stella and Mimi as a way to support and grow their businesses. Both are full-time mothers and full-time business owners, and both knew the importance of a support network to keep their business plans on track...no easy feat when you're also making lunches, changing diapers, and doing endless loads of laundry. In just twelve months, Stella and Mimi has grown from two moms in a coffee shop to a nationwide network of women business owners. Come j<a href="http://stellaandmimi.blogspot.com/2009/11/how-to-join.html">oin us</a> and run your business like a girl today!Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06555714448367360627noreply@blogger.com0